A Child's Dream©
A Parent's Role Is:

To demonstrate and communicate fully and consistently Who You Are to your Self, children, family, and each person you encounter and choose to interact with in your life.

'Who You Are' Means:

  • (1) To Know I Deserve Love, To Be Loved, and Are Love-Able just because I exist.
  • (2) To Act with Integrity and To Keep my Word to my Self and others.
  • (3) To Trust what I Know, I Know.
  • (4) To Value and express Love, Anger, Fear, and Sadness as I experience them.
  • (5) To Ask clearly for what I want and expect from my Self and others. To Know what I deserve, desire and prefer.
  • (6) To be Self-Loving, to give and receive Love freely without hesitation, judgment, or expectation.

The Five Different Parental Roles Are:

  • Biological: To provide part of the energetic matrix of physicality (sperm or egg) . To provide a sense of biological continuity and a genetic family history that establishes a connection with others on this planet.
  • Physical: To provide information and assistance concerning sustaining physical viability such as the body's need for air, water, and food to sustain its existence. To explain our physical realities (Beliefs), such as gravity, time, earth, air, fire, water, money, etc.
  • Emotional:To facilitate an understanding of: (1) Love as it exists in all forms and experiences and is non-conditional. (2) Anger that results from recognizing a non-preferred event has occurred and that expressing Anger produces change in our relationships. (3) Fear that says, Pay attention, and to recognize that new information, resources, and choices are desired.(4) Sadness as the result of the change from Fear to Love or Love to Fear. (5) How to utilize emotional energy for interpreting and creating preferred changes in Reality and experiences
  • Mental: To ditinguish Scarcity, the Belief in separation and loss, from Abundance, the Belief in limitless resources, connections, and integration. To facilitate the discovery of their child's Beliefs and to share and exchange their own Beliefs.
  • Spiritual: To live with integrity. To demonstrate personal preferences, choosing Self-Love, desires, and capacity. To share personal Beliefs about their connection to God-Goddess-All-That-Is. To share the Truths: (1) everyone has Personal Choice, (2) non-conditional Love Exists, and (3) Death is only a physical transformation of the Form.

    All parents do not automatically have the desire and/or capacity to fill

    All these Roles

    Just because they are a Parent.


    A Child Wants To Know That:

    • (1) They were and Are Wanted and Loved.
    • (2) They are Special.
    • (3) They will not be Abandoned.
    • (4) They are Valued and Appreciated.
    • (5) They are Known and Accepted for Who They Are.
    • (6) They are forgiven for making non-preferred choices in childhood.
    • (7) The parent Knows that they are Loved

    A Parent Wants To Know That:

    • (1) They are Loved, valued, and appreciated.
    • (2) They did a Good job being a parent.
    • (3) They are Forgiven for what they did or did not do in your childhood.
    • (4) You Know that you were loved as a child and are Loved today.
    • (5) You are Happy with your Life.
    • (6) They will not be Abandoned in old age.

    A Child's Role Is:

    • (1) To test constantly the validity, accuracy, and integrity of each parent.
    • (2) To discover their own connections to each parent.
    • (3) To constantly explore, share, and express new and different beliefs.
    • (4) To discover and demonstrate unique ways of expressing love to each parent.
    • (5) To seek out new ways to express, recognize, and experience non-conditional Love and Self-Love that are independent of existing parental and societal beliefs and expectations.
    • (6) To allow adults to re-member they were once children.
    • (7) To remind us that::
    • (a) Be Here Now means be conscious and available Now.
    • (b) Change is a constant.
    • (c) Life is based on priorities and preferences.
    • (8) To provide parents an opportunity to complete their relationship with their parents (the grand-parents) and to remember their Childlikeness.
    • (9) To demonstrate that Children know they have Choice, and they do not want anyone taking it away from them or making choices for them without their permission or agreement.
    • (10) To be willing and available to Be non-conditionally Loved by parents, family, friends, and other people. To give people an opportunity to see life through a Child's eyes and from their loving and trusting perspective. To provide people with the opportunity to Love and heal themselves through expressing and receiving Non-Conditional Love.